tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7031608.post6956430057907471419..comments2023-11-03T01:12:33.649-07:00Comments on A Girl and Her Life: Bigger Not Always BetterTuesday Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01816799873933925204noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7031608.post-17912331379031888872008-02-18T20:37:00.000-08:002008-02-18T20:37:00.000-08:00Well I am still chuckling here because I love this...Well I am still chuckling here because I love this topic! Not too many people brave this question and I seriously never even thought to ask it until...AFTER. <BR/><BR/>I really assumed all went back to normal. Well, after my first vaginal birth (which was horrible, forceps, complete tearing, etc) I had about a 6-9 month recovery. No, not weeks, months! And I really though the big "O" was NH Yocalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04706404613228845440noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7031608.post-85670785480410404902008-02-18T04:00:00.000-08:002008-02-18T04:00:00.000-08:00I noticed a difference. Sex was painful for a few ...I noticed a difference. Sex was painful for a few months and then initially uncomfortable for a few months after that. And I have a scar from the episiotomy! Not pretty.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7031608.post-56399762751177867272008-02-12T13:18:00.000-08:002008-02-12T13:18:00.000-08:00Both my vagina births were great! Only a little t...Both my vagina births were great! Only a little tearing and like 2 stitches every time. I even think sex is better not cause I am a little bit more open- not much. And just think the next day you can walk around and do stuff unlike a C-section :)Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16726478164857922016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7031608.post-55674555785110824152008-02-12T12:22:00.000-08:002008-02-12T12:22:00.000-08:00These are very interesting. Keep em coming.These are very interesting. Keep em coming.Tuesday Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01816799873933925204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7031608.post-19637896400836357882008-02-12T08:49:00.000-08:002008-02-12T08:49:00.000-08:00I'd say, at first, there is a difference.My OB had...I'd say, at first, there is a difference.<BR/><BR/>My OB had to "fix" my 1 degree tear after birth. She said she would make me as good as I once was. (tighten the hole back to the original size).<BR/><BR/>Not sure if that was the reason, but it hurt to have sex for quite some time. Actually, being squimish is more like it. Like "is it going to hurt this time? tender still?<BR/><BR/>At 9 months little miss melhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06626445438455846617noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7031608.post-17341000878173733932008-02-12T08:25:00.000-08:002008-02-12T08:25:00.000-08:00No difference to me or my husband. But, you can p...No difference to me or my husband. But, you can play the "Hey, I squeezed a kid out of my hooha" card from now until...well...forever.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7031608.post-11270939882175289102008-02-12T07:33:00.000-08:002008-02-12T07:33:00.000-08:00Not a lot of comments about the Vagina. My wife h...Not a lot of comments about the Vagina. My wife had two vaginal deliveries. No differences. The vagina is am amazing thing in regards to its ability to rebound. Obviously the gals are the experts, but it seems that your V is the least of your worries. It'll be there for you! (BTW, one word for you - Epidural.)<BR/>RRichardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09164833232371941000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7031608.post-23934581142491118312008-02-11T16:11:00.000-08:002008-02-11T16:11:00.000-08:00I have to do this anonymous...I had two vaginal de...I have to do this anonymous...<BR/>I had two vaginal deliveries and I must say they saved my sex life.<BR/>Vaginal birth makes a difference, if only a slight one. Before my children sex used to hurt me because I was this little tiny 100 pound girl with a husband who is hung like a horse. I'll spare you the details...but with the help of our kids I stretched out a little (not too much, I asked my Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7031608.post-9116040555478200062008-02-11T13:43:00.000-08:002008-02-11T13:43:00.000-08:00I had Csections both times (and LOVED them) so I'm...I had Csections both times (and LOVED them) so I'm not the person to answer thatAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7031608.post-17936982279606410472008-02-11T12:36:00.000-08:002008-02-11T12:36:00.000-08:00I haven't really noticed any difference, myself. ...I haven't really noticed any difference, myself. I've never bothered to ask my husband, though. It's really my boobs that are sad sacks after having kids. Sad, sad sacks. And, it was way worse after the second child. I nursed both kids, and that may have had something to do with it.Tricia Rothhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16617232875055299624noreply@blogger.com