tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7031608.post7255372459206664034..comments2023-11-03T01:12:33.649-07:00Comments on A Girl and Her Life: It is Only Monday???Tuesday Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01816799873933925204noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7031608.post-79931704802142505792007-06-12T09:36:00.000-07:002007-06-12T09:36:00.000-07:00Yuck...I'll admit, E is stuck between a rock and a...Yuck...<BR/><BR/>I'll admit, E is stuck between a rock and a hard place.<BR/><BR/>It's easy for someone to say "Don't worry about it, who cares what they say?" but it's not easy to ignore it is it?<BR/><BR/>I was in the same boat with my ex's parents....those bastards. I'm glad I'm shed of them!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7031608.post-40936371487725082822007-06-11T19:43:00.000-07:002007-06-11T19:43:00.000-07:00I know EXACTLY how you feel. My husband's family ...I know EXACTLY how you feel. My husband's family doesn't like me either, esp. his mother. she would talk about me, in front of me, and he would NEVER defend me, and it was a VERY BIG DEAL FOR ME!!!! finally, I told him that it's not good for me to feel that way, it causes too much stress and I refuse to myself in that place anymore. I excused myself from his family.<BR/><BR/>that was a few Angelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06245554563405436101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7031608.post-9938239410572261802007-06-11T18:38:00.000-07:002007-06-11T18:38:00.000-07:00Are E and my husband brothers? Because I swear thi...Are E and my husband brothers? Because I swear this sounds just like my bitch MIL...<BR/>Here's hoping they leave very very VERY soon.Dianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13754249936855622982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7031608.post-75396917045490773512007-06-11T09:32:00.000-07:002007-06-11T09:32:00.000-07:00Well, if you're going to make them mad either way,...Well, if you're going to make them mad either way, I'd get the heck out of there! <BR/><BR/>Wasn't there some traditional gift that you could give guests (usually on the 3rd day, but sooner if they are in-laws!) to politely signify "It's time for you to go"......Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02957936326211980114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7031608.post-56699011857720556022007-06-11T08:25:00.000-07:002007-06-11T08:25:00.000-07:00Oh honey. I hate to hear this.Can't change people...Oh honey. I hate to hear this.<BR/><BR/>Can't change people. And they made their own bed. It would be nice for it all to be different, I know.<BR/><BR/>Take good care and stay busy. xoxoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7031608.post-27777014309053807992007-06-11T08:09:00.000-07:002007-06-11T08:09:00.000-07:00I think you're being too nice to them by not telli...I think you're being too nice to them by not telling them <I>exactly</I> what's going through your mind. Then you get angry with E because you feel you <I>can</I> tell him just what's going on. In the end, the grandparents need to have some boundaries set... and YOU need to set those boundaries and E needs to support you in that effort. I am sure you will be more diplomatic than I would be inUneasy Riderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08926926584859016522noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7031608.post-35281693890818998952007-06-11T07:48:00.000-07:002007-06-11T07:48:00.000-07:00That must be awful. I don't blame you for feeling...That must be awful. I don't blame you for feeling the way you do. Some people simply cannot be pleased. Tell them you are giving them the gift of quality time spent with their grandchildren and then go catch up with a friend. Spend a day in the city, go see that movie you've been wanting to see. Treat yourself to something so that your day won't be spent avoidng them, but doing something Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com